Waukesha, 1987 to 1989.

When Joachim and his mother returned from the trip to Lesotho, direct reporting or explaining took awhile. It understands, to see one of your child not burdened but with all the responsibilities to carry out her chosen task. When she thought it over some time later and really grasped what Tina was doing there was not enough praise ever expressed to laude her daughter Tina, and rightly so. All three, Tina, Joachim, and their mother had a wonderful and exiting time while they were there. Renting a car necessary to get around and explored the immediate area around Tina`s bungalow and even a tripe to Cape Town in South Africa on mostly unpaved  roads could have been very smooth, but exciting to visit and explore all the frontiers presented to them. Tina did a superb job when her work Calendar presented the necessary time available. My son`s impression and feeling the visit to Lesotho changed some of his mind forever, one can read the attached statement in the prior Website pg # 37. Look the attachment and see the two children smiling and hugging each other, that `s why I like to add as many Images as practical to support the contents of the present text. Pictures really bring more feeling and clarity to a written text, it always has, and I hope it will do so every time a text complemented.
 
 
RETURNED / MARRIAGE / REVERENCE!     - 38 -
 
"The world will never have lasting peace so long as men reserve
For war the finest human qualities. Peace, no less than war, requires idealism
And self sacrifice and a right righteous and a dynamic faith".

- Jon Foster Dulles
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Like Always,
Sincerely Your Alfredo D` Eljama





 
 
 
 
 
Tina mentioned many times in the past, in conversations or letters, that she and her boyfriend are planning to get married after returned from Lesotho. When she became a little more specific I did not imagine but knew for sure her most likeable place to celebrate would be in Waukesha a German restaurant owned and run by former undesirable alien, same like me. This is not a complain only a fact to be proud of that coming here to start a new life, did everything possible, for our new home and thanked God for all the blessing he shed on us, particular the protection and of our children. At the end of 1988, her committed time completed did she return with vigor and happiness to be home again and spend a few weeks at her former nest. In addition to enjoying her known surrounding and resting on her laurels, which she really earned in Lesotho with all the children she gave hope and helped them to cope and  permanently improved their present an future life's. A long time after her return did she receive and answered many letters which came from former
students. One could see the glows in her eyes and demeanor could not hide how proud she was to experience some of the fruits of her labor. It was a time; none of us will ever forget and like always saying thanks to Him that let it all happen.Looking at the Image helps you to move beyond your physical attachment and experience, your essential soul nature of love and light. It can help you attain a very deep state of peace. It can also be very helpful to anyone with tragically effects to conquer the insurmountable problems. It will help with the transition from the physical body into spirit.

I must go back to my tree again, To that lovely tree where I cried. And all I ask is a whispering breeze
And a serene cerulean sky.

And the rustle of leaves, and the creak of the boughs, And the grit that clings to the bark; And the grooves of ancient forget - me - not The finder for memory`s spark.

To rest once again in utter peace  In those, gnarled and knotted limbs, To drift in blissful transcendence
And to make peace with Him.
level of control over the situation reached the unbearable without any reasonable solution at hand. It was than that, I concluded, what I am telling thru all the years to you, turn negative thoughts around into positive thinking and everything will improve for sure. Not much later, at midnight the long awaited Airplane arrived with my sister and her husband even more complaining as I. The real good thing, we didn`t understand French very well, but soon our happy mood and outlook elevated our conversation, while driving back to Waukesha, exchanging thoughts of the upcoming marriage of Tina. My sister and her husband never before visited USA, it was a great honor for Tina, and she appreciated it very much. The image shown French built A380 Airplane flown by an American Air Line transported them to Chicago.
The Wedding Bells are Ringing,!

Tina and her fiance decided the time is here and to get married. This was not a surprise to all of us, enough talks in the bigger family now as ever before. Different assignments have been given to different family members at different times. My assignment consisted of making the arrangement and meeting in Chicago O`Hare Airfield my sister and her husband, who were invited ,agreed to come ,to Tina`s most happy day to come. They came from far, Paris, France to honor Tina on one of her most important and happy day of her live. Accompanied by the Lady of the house we drove to O`Hare Airport prior to 19th of August 1989, the day of Tina`s Wedding day, very late in the evening. No, direct time, gate or even the airline Name given,when arrival should occur. The plan supposed to start in Paris to New York and come to O`Hare later in the evening. My
Blessings and Celebrations!!!!

At the Wedding Friends and Family gathered and participated in the Christian Church of Brian`s parents, the actual Wedding vows in front of the congregation and God which always ended," as long as I should live". His parents resided for many years in South Milwaukee, an independent municipality, separated from bigger Metropolitan Milwaukee. Brian`s Parent`s invited all of us to her house to get to know each other better before we moved to Waukesha to settle down for the remaining celebrations .Already mentioned, at Tina`s wish for along time, the German "Gasthaus" in Waukesha, very close to our home. At our arrival at the Gasthaus many participants already there and were waiting for the appearance of the new married pair. They did no let us wait long .Brian`s father opened the celebration with a nice welcome speech and encouraged all present to feel and act like being one of the family if their were not by blood related, a very nice Gesture and appreciated by later comments heard. The Gasthaus, Wisconsin highly acclaimed German restaurant, Weissgererber`s Gasthaus, features German and American specialties. Brought to America by Hans and Maria Weissgerber in 1956.The mothers of Bride and Groom didn`t want to be second rate according to preparing food They came together a few times  and designed and recommended to the people at the restaurant a wedding meal which was beyond all imagination. It consisted of an aperitif; followed by an appetizer, the main Meal two choices of prime Beef prepared in very old and tested recopies. Both known to the both mothers, one of German heritage and the others of Norwegian. Countries very close in
"Homecoming" by Tina.K
geographic terms as in custom, particular type of food and their preparation. Desert served were of several variation and a choice could one selected. The drinks during the meal, placed on the tables, different type of wines and self served if so desired. To complete the meal, the Pastor of Brian`s family closed the meal with a touching prayer and a thanksgiving to God for all Present. One of the pictures attached depict the room located on the second floor of the establishment with decked tables. Prior to the dancing, these tables had to be moved, so the dancing part and certain customary traits could take place. An open Bar during the Dancing and singing found the pleasure of multiple people present. Many Norwegian and German customs and songs filled the room until early in the morning. It has been a time never to forget and thanksgivings to give not only to God, but also to each other in as much we are all his children, therefore brothers, and sisters.