PONDER                                - 19 -
 
THINK ABOUT IT! - It happened more than once, even in our time, an exercise "in Pondering".
If all humankind minus one, were of one opinion, and only one person were of the contrary opinion,
Humankind would be no more justified in silencing that one person,
than he, if he had the power, would be Justified in silencing humankind.

– John Stuart Mill
 
 
Waukesha, November 1960

Why Pondering?

You might think where we going it looks the journey is proceeding on a pass not familiar to us. You are right. The same thought crossed my mind. I want all of you being a part, no matter how strange and absurd it might sound in the beginning, to understand when you heard everything. I am not superman never wanted to be one. The last four years put a lot of stress, physical and mental on me. I noticed and moved on without much considering the happenings over the last mentioned years. Never looked back full power ahead was my motto, it seem to be natural. Sometimes certain thoughts went thru my mind and were they a little to questionable, never did I paid to much consideration to such warnings, if that is what it supposed to be I kept my plan alive and moved on. If you one of the steady readers, by know you should know what happened and remembered most of it. That was one of my shortcomings; do not want to call a mistake. Never changed my goal. I moved on with the feeling of doing fine and the family was taken care of well. Close to the recent birth of our son combined with purchasing a different house slowly thoughts I never had before entered my mind. This thoughts started something's which most the time I never did very much of. Started thinking and doubting some of my past decisions and actions. That's the point where Pondering enters the Picture.


Reevaluating
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
projected ahead and compared with the past my confidence waned. I wanted to go with on Step at a Time, now like in the recent past rushed ahead. I know it was against all my resolves, had a very good conversation with my ever loving Friend, took his advice and embraced to believe on an accommodating destiny and moved to our new domicile, One Step at a Time! It took onlyfifteen minutes to reach our new place with the hope that this time we will have more luck to have a better opportunity to start building a family with a bundle of long lasting cohesion .After a successful unloading thanked our Movers, paid our dues we walked a little around and had a prayer of thanks.
 
 
 
Relocating.

Page – 18 - of our prior Website closed with beginning to load furniture of a moving truck, shown in an attached Image. The last moving I remembered, it was only a year ago, but a simpler operation. This moving and unloading in such a short time was actual the trigger to feel something is not going right. The text prior on this page deals in length about the Why`s and an acceptable solution. At the loading of our belongings, we reinforced with men accompanying the moving truck. With these experienced help not much confusing developed. The furniture moved hardly a year old and to valuable to discard. We know also that more purchasing of appropriated furniture would be necessary. The loading procedure took, including the final cleaning of the house about the most of the morning. A final look inside and a little walk around the outside should have been enough under normal circumstances, but is not this time. I
 
 
Patience was never a virtue of mine. Will I ever improve? Moreover, there is only one Person who knows. I keep on trying. There was no other person responsible than me. I should have spent some more time an evaluating and not act like running out of time. We were young the children little and had no complain about our health. Why the hurry to bring the day of awakening not appreciated but acknowledged. The past is gone and only something to learn from. The following text supported by an image does not need much explanation. On Step at a time! It would be not impossible to compose a plan for the future at this time. Now we are in the process to prepare for moving in our new house which will a take lot of planning and work. Have I learned something since the time come along of total discarding normal application to normal situation. I sincerely hope that all of us have learned from, this time I am not ashamed to say, my mistake. That is actual the only purpose writing this down in such details for all of you not to feel sorry for me, but to learn from it. Putting in a short but very effective version, the following four words tell us in four words how to avoid the above-mentioned shortcoming:
 



ONE STEP AT THE TIME!

"All our Dreams come true, if we have the courage to pursue them"
  - Walt Disney
 
  It took many nights, not necessary always totally sleepless, to come up with a comprehensive plan to secure my family and find the necessary resources to accomplish these goals. The urgency of some the decision I made were a little too much in a hurry. I had an inkling of it but did not do anything to adjust.
 
At Work

  All this moving around recently happened during the month of September, which was during the time worked in the Waukesha Office. That is why being close to the home front advantaged my usefulness in our moving. This is the second winter since we came to Waukesha in of 1960 and like their procedure assigned in DOT Office.

Reminiscing again but are happy to seen that the road I am travelling to separated to be successful. The work I am assigned is below my capability as a Civil Engineer. My coworker's age was six to seven years off mine, therefore their experiences very low. The time of two years separated in winter in office duty and summers on construction, which I already mentioned on other pages. All around, ignoring the recent discovered shortcomings, the coming to Waukesha was still a move, which might show up in the future as a good undertaking. I have to admit thoughts of mind are still not dormant but moving many times to the future. To act on them is what have to watch. If there, would be a possibility to change my professional endeavor I would give a chance and not hesitate much. Sometimes I have to give my striving nature a break and let her succeed. Not that I am not gratefully to my present employer, sometimes I feel very indebted. Right no it is too early to tell under would condition and contract my employment made. You will be amazed. Work to me was never a burden believe or not a privilege. In a matter of fact I never worked on hour in my life, I followed my Friend instruction to continue his work to Create. I follow his instruction and keep creating as long as I can.
 
  While browsing the internet I came across the picture to the right of this paragraph. It interested me just by looking at it. It said nearly everything I am trying to tell since I started to talk about my latest shortcomings. Adding pictures, the text makes the pictures more alive and much more understandable. There is an old but valuable saying: One Picture is more worth than thousand words. Our Picture has not necessarily thousand words. I hope you like the combination Text with Picture. If you have anything to comment on this issue you are welcomed to utilize our Contact us arrangement which is hardly used. I would appreciate to converse with you only to find out if you ever had question of any kind. Once more, I like to express my happiness for finding all the Pictures with dynamic messages how to proceed in any undertaking in a healthy and productive way. Adopt it!
A FEW WORDS OF WISDOM.
A person without a sense of humor is like a wagon without springs.
It is jolted by every pepple on the road.
 
See you again soon, with the next step in our Journey, until than may He bless you and love each other.

Sincerely yours
Alfredo De` Eljama.