"A good motto is: Use friendliness, however do not use you friends."
-F.Crane
INVITE - WEDDING - RETIREMENT!           - 40 -
Waukesha, WI and |Surrounding, 1989 to 1993.

Invite,

My sister in Germany blessed with having two healthy children, a boy named Gordian, and a daughter called Mecki. Both mentioned regularly to visit us at an appropriated time. We promised, when the time comes both of them would be welcomed, together or single. After some months corresponding with Gordian and his girlfriend Carola, a time established for them to visit us in the spring of 1989. After we arrived at O'Hare to .Welcome them and taking to Waukesha a small change of the routine happened. Gordian wanted to pick up a rented car and follows us to Waukesha .After a little discussion we all agreed driving together first to   Waukesha and make the desired plans there. The first week of their present in our home, we did nearly like always and showed



A very exciting, but at the same time a somewhat sad experience the wedding of my last child, my Son`s marriage. The Wedding of my Son Joachim made me experience the not so favorite ending of something. All my children are married now and the time to see this happiness is gone forever. Said many times coping with all present and past experiences, let them be positive or negative is one of the biggest asset we as dependable Humans always will have. Looking forward to the growing of a new family in the union of prior addition is a reward for any imaginary set back. Joachim will marry Maria, A girl of Mexican Ancestry, June 15, 1990 in   Catholic Church, Delevan, Close by Waukesha, with the participation of many of her relatives and most of our clan. To make it very vivid and detailed I asked my Son to write in his own style how he and Maria`s received their wedding celebration, inasmuch the Mexican Language at
everything, what mostly found pleasure with the visitors from Europe, particular relatives from Germany. It would take many Pages of repetitions if all these places explained in detail. On many former pages of the Websites, all of the different locations visited before with friends or relatives are listed and accurate described and easy to access for detailed Information. A shorter version of the actual localities we showed Gordian and Carolina will follow. All the places visited consisted of day trips and the most distance one happened to be La Cross located on the Mississippi River, famous of the lures and history, somewhat similar to compare with romantic German River the Rhine. The highlight in La Cross had a crossing up and down the River in original Sternwheeler boat, a replica of the Boat used many years ago. It was a very nice and satisfying, happy day. Another day we went to Wisconsin's most famous, interesting natural, and amusement like Area, known for hundred of years, called the "Wisconsin Dells" and her fame goes far beyond her actual size. If one likes more detailed information about the natures wonder of the Dell`s, please don't hesitate to visit Website # 28 & 29 and read all one ever will know about the Dell`s. To most, mature people the natural wonders most desired, understandable the younger generation more interested  in the participation of the existing Amusement Parks. After we visited few times the close by Metropolitan  
the moment is not yet, maybe never might be, a strong point of my conversation or understanding. The Mexican people like to talk and sing in very fast tempo. Maria I know for sure will assist Achim producing this report, and you, I hope, should enjoy the happiness of the two people joining in a Union blessed by God and all of the Family. The attached Text to your right are the direct words and thought of my of my son Joachim, written and send by Email June 15, 2008.as you noted at the top with sender and receiver. The time is some out of sink: however should not interfere with actual past circumstances, but enhance.
Many things happened on this Page, many hurdles overcome. I hope that you do some soul-searching and let yourself guided from an entity you can Trust always.

Sincerely,
Alfredo, De`Eljama
From Permanency to Part-time! April 19.1993

The last Website explained in detail my Plans I hade when the time of Retirement has arrived. It never crossed my mind to walk away and never look back, what so many people do. Never could I understand of such an action. Work to me always was and will be a privilege not a burden. That`s why I look on the word work with some distance and call it what it really is and designated as being Creative. Throughout the Website many times discussed this and that why I decided to "Change "my status as permanent- Employee to a "Part- time Employee, as discussed and desired a few years ago by the D.O.T. Management. At the time of the changeover, according  my future usefulness did not happen over night, but developed all during the last years when I found my calling to inform my coworkers all around the State, in eight District, about multiple
important issues "How" to be better and faster Equipped to serve the people of Wisconsin. During the winter months, when extra time available, the technical materials, displays, or Power Point presentations created, updated and fine-tuned for the springtime Districts visitations. A very important point I tried to install in their heart and mind , very valued by Management, that one of their own comes to us and informs, that we are "All" Servant of the people of Wisconsin, which trust us completely , therefore we are obligated to give the best we are capable. At the actual day of changing being permanent to continue my services as mentioned above, friends, coworker and my closest Manager reserved an actual meeting room used for such events, too. Many former coworker who started about the same time than I, retired some time ago; however, few were present at the formal retirement occasion.
The first I mentioned it would be not a Good Bye, but more like an announcement as Auf Wiedersehen, which translated means, "See you again." The Image Auf Wierdersehen Fred displaced at the time of
Milwaukee with the brilliant Michigan Lake Shore flower and tree arrangement, and the adjacent City of Waukesha, Gordian started talking about their plans for the rest of their vacation. The evenings we enjoyed exchanging thought for the present and future plans of their holiday in America. Carola`s aunt , living in New York on their list of things to do, in addition to renting a car and have a nice ride  driving and exploring the American West. What a wonderful planned vacation. After a week at our home I drove Gordian and Carola to Chicago, where thy rented a Car and took off to enjoy the rest of their vacation. At the completion of their journey around the West visiting Carola`s relative in New York finales their vacation. After the Rental car returned, boarding the reserved Airplane on their return flight to Germany.
Wedding Bells are ringing! AD 1990
departing on the Walls in room 314, Office building in Waukesha by coworkers of which many turned into friends. Maybe not all did care one way or the other. To me and to plenty others it was a happy event never to forget. All  the material used, given to me and said is preserved since and now could be the moment where I can present some of these document , accompanied with explanation Images to reinforce hat this occasion did change the direction of my original Journey, which continues in this Website. A sharp turn in our road does not change to complete my former goal and will include the promise to my Friend and Lord, to make a Difference prior to my meeting with Him.
  However a bend in the road/Journey, can be and should not be a deterrent, but a stimulate utilizing ones capability of coping. Sometimes I am a little discouraged while walking thru this valley of misery, as subscript at certain time by the discouraged ones. They recuperate fast, when they follow certain steps, advertised in these pages such as "Coping, Hope and more." Bringing a few personal fare wells from my coworkers , converted to friends, back to live service a twofold, originality and I could not explain it better and understandable doing this way. The content of each Image most the time is self-explaining.  I prefer a system to use as close as possible reporting facts from the most reliable source available, let it be Documents or Actual
witnesses to have their say. Example: Read my Sons reporting from Tina`s Peace Corps time in Lesotho, SA. On Website pg # 37, very clear and detailed. Prior to this text my Son`s Wedding is reported with originals from him similar to Lesotho, reporting. It all come down to, that I try to stay away from Hearsay as much as possible, direct fact are much correct an valuable information. The last of the images refers to many similar comments I have from my coworkers and shows, that out of this Undesirable Alien (see Page #1 From Hell to Paradise ) a worthy work partner, Friend, mentor and Citizen of this great Country developed.