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“HAVE SELF ESTEEM ”
Be Positive
Be Positive
What do we learn from these two stories? Is there magic employed here? No, it is all natural. When the attitude positive we entertain feelings pleasant feelings and constructive images see in our minds eye what we really want to happen. This brings brightness to the eyes, more energy, and happiness. Our whole being broadcasts good will, happiness, and success. Even our health is affected in a beneficial way. We walk tall and the voice is more is more powerful.
OUR BODY LANGUAGE SHOWS OUR INNER FEELINGS!
OUR BODY LANGUAGE SHOWS OUR INNER FEELINGS!
Self-esteem is your opinion of yourself. High self-esteem is a good opinion of you and low self – esteem is a bad opinion of yourself. What is low self –Esteem? Low self-Esteem results from a poor self-image, which is based on how you see yourself. Do you think you are a good, reliable, hardworking, honest, and friendly person? What Is The Importance Of Self –Esteem? Self-esteem is crucial and is the cornerstone of a positive attitude towards living. High self-esteem will make you happy, confident, and highly motivated and will give you the right positive attitude towards living. It is very important because it effects how you think, act ad even how you relate to other people. It affects your potential to be successful. Low self-esteem means poor confidence and that causes negative thoughts that mean that you are likely to give up easily rather than face challenges. In addition, it has direct bearings on one’s happiness and well being.
How to Improve Yourself! Anonymous.
Let each man learn to know himself; to gain that knowledge led him labor to improve this fallings in himself that he condemns to his neighbor.
How lenient our own fall we view, and conscience’s voice adeptly smother; Yet, oh, how harshly we review the selfsame failing in another!
And if you meet an erring one, whose deeds are blamable and thoughtless, consider, ere you cast the stone, if yourself are pure and faultless.
Oh, list to that small voice within, whose whisperings oft make confounded, and trumpet not another sin; you did blush if you own were sounded.
And in self-judgment if you find your deeds to others are superior, to you has providence been kind, as you be to those inferior.
Let each man learn to know himself; to gain that knowledge led him labor to improve this fallings in himself that he condemns to his neighbor.
How lenient our own fall we view, and conscience’s voice adeptly smother; Yet, oh, how harshly we review the selfsame failing in another!
And if you meet an erring one, whose deeds are blamable and thoughtless, consider, ere you cast the stone, if yourself are pure and faultless.
Oh, list to that small voice within, whose whisperings oft make confounded, and trumpet not another sin; you did blush if you own were sounded.
And in self-judgment if you find your deeds to others are superior, to you has providence been kind, as you be to those inferior.
Here's an Example of How Self-Esteem Can Work:
Allen, our imaginary person, applied for a new job, bur his self-esteem was low, and he considered himself as a failure and unworthy of success, he was sure that he was not to get the job. He had a negative attitude towards himself, believed that the other applicants were better, more qualified than he did. Allan manifested this attitude, due to his negative past experiences with job interviews. His mind was filled negative thoughts and fears concerning the job for the whole job interview. He was sure of being rejected. On the day of the day of the interview he got up late, and to his horror discovered, his shirt planned to wear at the meeting was dirty, another one were, dirty and needed ironing. It was already late, left wearing with a wrinkled shirt. During the Interview, he was tense, displaced a negative attitude, worried about his shirt, felt hungry, and had not time enough to eat breakfast. All this distracted his mind and made it difficult for him to focus on the interview. His overall behavior made a bad impression, and consequently he materialized his fear and did get the job.
Allen, our imaginary person, applied for a new job, bur his self-esteem was low, and he considered himself as a failure and unworthy of success, he was sure that he was not to get the job. He had a negative attitude towards himself, believed that the other applicants were better, more qualified than he did. Allan manifested this attitude, due to his negative past experiences with job interviews. His mind was filled negative thoughts and fears concerning the job for the whole job interview. He was sure of being rejected. On the day of the day of the interview he got up late, and to his horror discovered, his shirt planned to wear at the meeting was dirty, another one were, dirty and needed ironing. It was already late, left wearing with a wrinkled shirt. During the Interview, he was tense, displaced a negative attitude, worried about his shirt, felt hungry, and had not time enough to eat breakfast. All this distracted his mind and made it difficult for him to focus on the interview. His overall behavior made a bad impression, and consequently he materialized his fear and did get the job.
Jim, another applicant applied for the same job, but approached the matter in a different way. He was sure to get the Job. During the week preceeding the interview, he often visualized making a good impression to getting the job. In the evening prior, the interview he prepared the clothes that he planned to wear at the interview, and went to sleep some earlier. On the day of the interview, he woke up earlier to have enough time eating breakfast and to arrive at the interview at the scheduled time. He got the job, because he made a good impression, proper qualification for the job but so had Allen.
May God love all of you! Alfred
Low Esteem: It is logical to always want to get to the root of a matter in any concept-Positive or negative. After all, we have all made to believe that the only Low Self Esteem will make you indifferently, negatively to vary events that occur in your life, which is the essence of living- the reaction, the responses, how we choose to organize ourselves in the midst of difficulties. So let us get to the bases. Low Self Esteem is never born into you. It is not like being shy, which we may believe, have some genetic factors to it. Low Esteem starts in a very early stage of our lives; it can and does begin later in our life. Low Esteem can be the result of our all by ourselves. A home where there is no love produces nothing but negativity. A situation where you are not praised by who you are, what achievement you have made, cannot encourage you to feel happy about yourself. The above might guide you a little to watch that you not to fall in the open traps above.