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“Be Yourself”
The Face In The Glass!
When you get what you want in your struggle for yourself And the world makes you king for a day, Just go to a mirror and look at yourself. Then see what THAT face has to say: For it is not your father or your mother or spouse Photo Gallery) whose judgment upon you must pass; The person whose verdict counts most in your life Is the one staring back from the glass.
When you get what you want in your struggle for yourself And the world makes you king for a day, Just go to a mirror and look at yourself. Then see what THAT face has to say: For it is not your father or your mother or spouse Photo Gallery) whose judgment upon you must pass; The person whose verdict counts most in your life Is the one staring back from the glass.
*Always Be Honest And Open.*
What do you have to hide? We are all imperfect, growing, learning human beings, if you feel ashamed or insecure about any aspect of yourself –and you feel that you have to hide those parts of you whether physically or emotionally—then you have to come to terms with that and learn to convert your so called flaws into individualistic quirks. Be honest with yourself, but do not beat yourself up. There is a different between being critical and being honest, learn to watch the way say things to yourself and others when being honest.
What do you have to hide? We are all imperfect, growing, learning human beings, if you feel ashamed or insecure about any aspect of yourself –and you feel that you have to hide those parts of you whether physically or emotionally—then you have to come to terms with that and learn to convert your so called flaws into individualistic quirks. Be honest with yourself, but do not beat yourself up. There is a different between being critical and being honest, learn to watch the way say things to yourself and others when being honest.
As a famous song goes, Life is not worth anything, until you can say:
“I AM WHAT I AM” When you sincerely can say it, you are
YOURSELF!
“I AM WHAT I AM” When you sincerely can say it, you are
YOURSELF!
The feeling I had after I finished this Page #67 was as close, or better said, when Caesar made the famous statement, Veni-Vedi-Veci, I came, I saw, I conquered. The purpose of this Page, as far as I can say fulfilled its mission and I hope that all of you are thinking the same and are satisfied. A big purpose also fulfilled when utilize and getting in contact with me.
My God be close to you always and follow His Guideline with Joey.
With all Sincerity, Alfred
My God be close to you always and follow His Guideline with Joey.
With all Sincerity, Alfred
Some people might think you are a straight shooting chum and call you a wonderful person or woman, but the face in the glass says you are, you only a bum. If you cannot look it straight in the eye, that is the one you must please, never mind the rest, for that is the one with you clear up to the end. Moreover, you know you have past your most dangerous test if the face in the glass is your friend. You may fool the whole world down the Pathway of life, and in addition, get pats on the back as you pass, but your final reward will be heartache and tears if you have cheated the face in the glass. Dale Wimbrow
BE YOURSELF, EVERYONE IS ALREADY TAKEN!
Oscar Wilde.
Oscar Wilde.
As every one can see, this poem beautifully shows that being true to oneself is the most important key to real joy and happiness. Let me share witch you how this poem has affected my life and how you can us it to improve yours. While I was working in a so-called good job and doing most of the things, I wanted to do, but I was not completely happy with what I was doing, because I knew I was not using my potential and pursuing my passions and dreams. I was simply passing up time. I followed the poem’s advice and examined myself in a mirror carefully and thoughtfully. After thinking about what I really wanted to do, the mirror helped to find that a change, by reading the Poem above, would be for the better.
Real Happiness!
How to Be Yourself!
* Define Yourself *
You cannot be yourself if you do not know, understand, and accept yourself first. That is what you should find out first. Try to take some time to yourself and contemplate your whole life and choices. Try to think about your choices, sort them out accordingly thru trial and error, which most the time will produce more valuable as you ever you have could imagined. Work on accepting mistakes and choices you have made; they done and in the past, so there is no use crying over spilled milk.
* Disregard How People Perceive You *
Do not care about how people think about you. It really does not matter. It is impossible to be yourself when you caught up in wondering if and what they think. To be yourself, you have to let go of these concern and just let your behavior flow , with only your consideration of others as a filter—not their consideration of you. Besides, if you change yourself for one person or group, which might not care for you at all, you could go around in a vicious cycle trying to please people; it is pointless in the end, leaves you exhausted. However, if someone you trust and respect analyzes aspects of who you are, feel free to judge whether it is accurate instead of accepting or dismissing the critique unconditionally.
You cannot be yourself if you do not know, understand, and accept yourself first. That is what you should find out first. Try to take some time to yourself and contemplate your whole life and choices. Try to think about your choices, sort them out accordingly thru trial and error, which most the time will produce more valuable as you ever you have could imagined. Work on accepting mistakes and choices you have made; they done and in the past, so there is no use crying over spilled milk.
* Disregard How People Perceive You *
Do not care about how people think about you. It really does not matter. It is impossible to be yourself when you caught up in wondering if and what they think. To be yourself, you have to let go of these concern and just let your behavior flow , with only your consideration of others as a filter—not their consideration of you. Besides, if you change yourself for one person or group, which might not care for you at all, you could go around in a vicious cycle trying to please people; it is pointless in the end, leaves you exhausted. However, if someone you trust and respect analyzes aspects of who you are, feel free to judge whether it is accurate instead of accepting or dismissing the critique unconditionally.
*Relax, Stop Worrying*
What if there is situation and you fall flat on your face? Learn to “Laugh” at yourself both when it happens and afterwards. Turn it into a funny story that you can share with others. It lets them know that you are not perfect, than you feel more at ease,too. It’s also an attractive quality for someone to be able to laugh at themselves and not take the too seriously.
What if there is situation and you fall flat on your face? Learn to “Laugh” at yourself both when it happens and afterwards. Turn it into a funny story that you can share with others. It lets them know that you are not perfect, than you feel more at ease,too. It’s also an attractive quality for someone to be able to laugh at themselves and not take the too seriously.
*Believe In Who You Are*
You never will be happy if you are wanted to be someone you are not. Be yourself and show the world you are proud of the way you are ! Nobody knows you better than you do, and that is how it should be. You deserve to be your best friend, so start, so START trying to figure out how you can do that. If you had to be with yourself for a day, what is the most fun type of person, you could be, while still being yourself. What is the best version of you? Believe in this idea and use that as your STARTING point. Love and accept yourself as you are NOW. Do not copies other people action, nobody other than you knows what you really need or want.” Being Different Is Absolutely Beautiful”
You never will be happy if you are wanted to be someone you are not. Be yourself and show the world you are proud of the way you are ! Nobody knows you better than you do, and that is how it should be. You deserve to be your best friend, so start, so START trying to figure out how you can do that. If you had to be with yourself for a day, what is the most fun type of person, you could be, while still being yourself. What is the best version of you? Believe in this idea and use that as your STARTING point. Love and accept yourself as you are NOW. Do not copies other people action, nobody other than you knows what you really need or want.” Being Different Is Absolutely Beautiful”
