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“BE A GOOD CONVERSATIONALIST AND LEARNER”
I promised all of you after ending page # 69 the continuation to Page # 70 will be much more, pleasurable and educational as reported at page # 69. Living up to my promise and the necessity of keeping my words and goals, starting to-day with today with a very fitting and useable poem, fitted with an Image to glide in a very potent and touching view with combining both the poem and Image.
All day long, I had no time to spread a word of cheer. No time to speak of Christ to friends, they did laugh at me I did fear.
No time, no time, too much to do, that was my constant cry, no time to give souls in need, but at last, the time to die.
I went before the Lord. I came, I stood with downcast eyes. For in his hand God held a book of live.
God looked into his book and said: “Your name I cannot find. I once was going to write it down....But never found the time”
Author Unknown
No time, no time, too much to do, that was my constant cry, no time to give souls in need, but at last, the time to die.
I went before the Lord. I came, I stood with downcast eyes. For in his hand God held a book of live.
God looked into his book and said: “Your name I cannot find. I once was going to write it down....But never found the time”
Author Unknown
TOOLS TO ASSIST YOU!
1) Writing down Goals:
The power writing behind down your goal is to give you a road map to follow, a kind of “honey do list”. On the list, you write you down all the things you would like to accomplish. As the list remains in front of you, it is a constant reminder of what it is you wish to accomplish. This scenario is true and works the same for “your” goals. The power behind writing down your goal is they stay on your mind and in front of you at all times. If you do not write them down, chances are you will easy forget them. Have you experienced “the out of- sight out of mind “puzzle? If we do not have a constant reminder of things we wish to have, we easily forget about them.
1) Writing down Goals:
The power writing behind down your goal is to give you a road map to follow, a kind of “honey do list”. On the list, you write you down all the things you would like to accomplish. As the list remains in front of you, it is a constant reminder of what it is you wish to accomplish. This scenario is true and works the same for “your” goals. The power behind writing down your goal is they stay on your mind and in front of you at all times. If you do not write them down, chances are you will easy forget them. Have you experienced “the out of- sight out of mind “puzzle? If we do not have a constant reminder of things we wish to have, we easily forget about them.
The Bottom Line:
Being able to ask for what you want , and ask in an effective way that will increase the changes you will get it ,a is crucial life skill. It requires that you know what you want, are comfortable, articulating what you want, and have communication skills necessary and not depending on others completely.
Closing:
I hope, no, no, “I am convinced” that at the end of Page #69 the promise, a better, more positive @ Page #70 I gave to you, I fulfilled in all departments, by composing this page and presenting it to you without any restriction.
Looking forward to Page # 71, Contents not decided yet!
May God be with us at all times and never deserting us!
Alfred
Being able to ask for what you want , and ask in an effective way that will increase the changes you will get it ,a is crucial life skill. It requires that you know what you want, are comfortable, articulating what you want, and have communication skills necessary and not depending on others completely.
Closing:
I hope, no, no, “I am convinced” that at the end of Page #69 the promise, a better, more positive @ Page #70 I gave to you, I fulfilled in all departments, by composing this page and presenting it to you without any restriction.
Looking forward to Page # 71, Contents not decided yet!
May God be with us at all times and never deserting us!
Alfred
2) How to Become a Better Asker!
a) Write down what you want.
This one technique can help in situations where you are not clear what you want. It is totally to the individual to develop his system, which is comfortable under any circumstances to comfort both the caller and talker. Using it more often, eventual it is no more trying, but changed over to be a routine, and as often you use it you will be very comfort with it.
b) Get an outside perspective.
If your own limited perspective is holding you, back of what you see as possible or of how others will react to you, then seek out someone who an help see things from another viewpoint, brainstorm options, and role play possible interaction.
a) Write down what you want.
This one technique can help in situations where you are not clear what you want. It is totally to the individual to develop his system, which is comfortable under any circumstances to comfort both the caller and talker. Using it more often, eventual it is no more trying, but changed over to be a routine, and as often you use it you will be very comfort with it.
b) Get an outside perspective.
If your own limited perspective is holding you, back of what you see as possible or of how others will react to you, then seek out someone who an help see things from another viewpoint, brainstorm options, and role play possible interaction.
Ok now that you understand the power behind writing down your goals, you must come to understand to learn how to learn beginning to dream your goals. It is not like going to sleep at night, wake up in the morning, and not remember what we dreamed about. That type of dreaming they did not like you doing in school. This type of dreaming you did not were allowed in school, but now it will be beneficial for you, forever, if you want to learn how to, utilize will eventual the only way for you to gain from it. One of the best places for you to receive the most benefits to actual to do what recommended, could be your loved most room in your house or even it could work in your car.
POEM!
I knelt to pray but not for long, I had too much to do, I had to hurry and get to work, for bills would soon be due.
So I knelt, said a very hurried prayer, and jumped off my knees. My Christian duty now done; my soul could rest at ease.
I knelt to pray but not for long, I had too much to do, I had to hurry and get to work, for bills would soon be due.
So I knelt, said a very hurried prayer, and jumped off my knees. My Christian duty now done; my soul could rest at ease.
c) Stop hoping for Mind Readers.
If you believe, “you should have to ask” Or if your requests are indirect and overly subtle, then realize that what you are doing is putting your future in the direct hands of“mind Readers”. You are acting as if those around you can figure out what you want and then supply a appropriate response. By taking such an approach, you relinquish you ability to control your own destiny and significantly lessen your chances of getting what really want
If you believe, “you should have to ask” Or if your requests are indirect and overly subtle, then realize that what you are doing is putting your future in the direct hands of“mind Readers”. You are acting as if those around you can figure out what you want and then supply a appropriate response. By taking such an approach, you relinquish you ability to control your own destiny and significantly lessen your chances of getting what really want
d) Learn by asking in no defense able-hearing Fashion.
If you find yourself fearing how others respond to what you ask for, or accumulating a history of receiving badly to your requests, then most likely, you are missing some key phrase skills that will or could you allow asking questions that in a way that does not push other people’s buttons. The good news that these skills are learnable. For example, a simple but effective way to ask someone to do what you want in a neutral non - offensive way even in a potentially controversial are, is to simply say, I "ask that you...” – followed by what you want to ask. Finding an “effective” communication Class, book or coach to help you grow your in the ever missing communication skill and any many more crutches to help your walk in the Skill of proper communication skill.
If you find yourself fearing how others respond to what you ask for, or accumulating a history of receiving badly to your requests, then most likely, you are missing some key phrase skills that will or could you allow asking questions that in a way that does not push other people’s buttons. The good news that these skills are learnable. For example, a simple but effective way to ask someone to do what you want in a neutral non - offensive way even in a potentially controversial are, is to simply say, I "ask that you...” – followed by what you want to ask. Finding an “effective” communication Class, book or coach to help you grow your in the ever missing communication skill and any many more crutches to help your walk in the Skill of proper communication skill.