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“ASK FOR IT ”
I asked God......
I asked for strength and God gave me difficulties to make me strong I asked for wisdom and God gave me problems to solve I asked for prosperity and God gave me brawn and brain to work I asked for courage and God gave me dangers to overcome I asked for patience God placed me in situations where I forced to wait I asked for love and God gave me troubled people to help I asked for favors and God gave me opportunities I received nothing I wanted I received everything I needed My Prayer Has Been Answered By Unknown.
Ask What You Want.
I many situations for you to be able getting what you want or need you must be willing to “Ask for it “.That is, you need to be able engaging with others to request something special, specific-help, support, or an answer, an action, a item etc. Sounds simple; but realities for many people ask what they really want. Most merely, ask for what they feel comfortable articulating and it is up to the person dealing with them to read between the line and guess, reading between the lines and guess what is related and what is going on. Why is it so hard asking what you want and how to become a better asker? The continuation of this Page will give some ideas about how to improve and articulate Questions. Listed below are several factors that can keep one silent.
A large majority of people do not feel comfortable asking for “What they Want” because they live with an embarrassing secret - they actual do not know what they want. They might have some vague ideas about the end-state the want to achieve – for example,” I want to be happy, less stressed, enough money, respected, Etc.-but they can not seem to fill in the details sufficiently to identify concrete things they might be able to ask for. What you think to ask for will be constrained by what you view as possible or probable. If you cannot envision viable option to investigate or pursue there are no opportunity asking for help or support in making them a reality.
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May God protect and love all of us, Alfred
“The secrete to productive goal setting is establishing clearly defined goals, writing them down and than focusing on them several times a day with words, pictures and emotions as we would have already achieved them.”
Intermezzo:
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Closing:
Now, you heard the problem of “How to Ask for What You Want” In the next Page # 70 I will try to find the antidote most likely called and instruct “How to become a better Asker”. I am calling this portion of dealing with a Negative, related to asking, dipressive. Looking forward a little bit into the future to the next Website Page # 70, which will be a continuation of the above. A Much more positive and enjoyable Page as the page above.

Many people believe it is demeaning to have certain things to ask, a cling to a conviction that these things should simply be offered by other people. Believe: “If you have to ask, then the response you get has no value.” People who hold these assumptions simply will not ask for many of the critical things they need. People with an indirect expression problem might never ask direct but will go around the issues thinking to hesitate a direct question is impolite. Many people believe that their own needs or desires are somehow inferior to, or less important than, the needs of others.
Afraid Of Others Reaction to Ones Question. Most of us are great at imagining the probable outcomes of our action. Thus, if we contemplate asking for something wanting automatically a response of a not asked question. A problem is that we are many times wrong in our prediction of the future because we imagine both sides of the conversation, blinded by single set of filters and assumption, our own. We all too often prevent ourselves from asking for what we asking, for what because we incorrectly convince ourselves we will not get it.